I'm Fine With God, It's Christians I Can't Stand
Getting Past the Religious Garbage in the Search for Spiritual Truth
Bruce Bickel & Stan Jantz
This book is excellent. Everyone will relate to something in it.
These two authors (They've co-authored quite a few books, over 60) have a couple of web sites that go along with this book:
http://www.conservantlife.com/brucebickel
http://www.conservantlife.com/stanjantz
The first chapter of the book is titled
I'm Fine With God But Cant's Stand Christians Who Impose Their Morality On Others
From page 21:
The Bible is just as clear about God's hatred of lying and gossiping as it is about God's stance on divorce. But Christians didn't discriminate against gossips (probably because it was a taint that the majority of them shared). Divorced people constituted a much smaller minority (1960's) so they were easy targets.